There is a point of diminishing returns since there are inescapable physics at play.
If her response is judgmental or resentful, then you might be justified in pulling back, but I think you should try asking for what you need from her first.
Keeping the overall length of the shoes shorter would obviously help to maintain that highly coveted 45 ° angle that we talked about earlier.
Everyone knew, and no one clued me in.
While new shoes should remove all of those concerns, you still need to be careful.
Between this Scylla and Charybdis I would like to offer a third option.
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These are friends he has had since grade school and keeping in touch with them means a lot to him.