Show her you care by giving her attention and gifts.
Those women who choose to hold power over a man who opens himself up to her are fools because they are abusing the relationship in order to feel better about themselves, when in reality with a man like the one they have, these women are already safe and being nurtured by their husbands.
But to indulge on where it all began or how to fix it all? If it's your money why do you need permission? I am afraid that if I divorced and she got them they would be at a disadvantage.
Him for forcing his wife to be a wife.
What matters now are your children, first and foremost, and dealing with ending this relationship safely and sanely for all of you.
The issue was that he had not yet learned how to do that.
Her feelings for you are inconsistent.
She tries to initiate conversations with him, but they go nowhere.