I sometimes wanna touch my ears to cool 'em down.
I like arousal, just not when it's down there.
Make sure to be honest with him and ask how he feels as this may be causing other issues in your relationship without you knowing.
The release being the equivalent of the junkie getting his shot than allows him to relax again.
Aphrodisiac foods and make you crave a little time between the sheets.
So rest assured; this is a perfectly normal biological response, you needn't feel guilty or responsible for it, and it has no bearing on your orientation.
I thought it was meant to be something.
Find creative outlets If you want to use that energy for something not related to sex, consider finding hobbies or volunteer opportunities that can help you apply that passion somewhere else.