I think it depends on how much you like a person.
Women are attracted to the strength in men e.
This is a universal signal that you're moving in for a kiss.
In the same way we might overanalyze a first date, the first kiss can also become a point of relationship dissection.
Moreover, even if the connection is there, she has to be willing to kiss you.
Read what I said again, this time more carefully.
Insinuate the idea of a date and if she responds positively confirm a time and place to make it happen.
To tongue or not to tongue….